Happy Mother's Day Mom! / Judy Thinking of you and missing you Mom. I know your happy up there with Dad, Grandma and Mikey. Just wish you were here sometimes. It gets so lonely just waiting till the day I can be with you's again. You left me lots of good memories and things to help me though. Your strength was always so commendable and your love so true. I love you very much!
Ill never meet anyone with the heart Mike had. His compassion in every thing he did inspired me always. He cant start some type of work with out finishing it perfect. Mike always looked after me, didnt realize how much he really did tho. Everyone should be like mike, im gonna make him proud.
cant stop missing you / Lynn Unsen (sister) I think and still cry everyday for you. Every time I do something I would normally call and tell you about it makes me miss you even more. I know you are here with me everyday, but it just don't feel like enough. Its so hard to think of having another child that will never get to know you, but I only ask that you bless Ben and him with the relationship that you and Matt had. I hope you are with them in all the crazy things brothers do together and Guide them with your love. I miss you so much and can't wait to see you again. Can't wait to fall asleep and visit you on our dream dates.Love and miss you Lynn
I would have picked one... / Syndi ~Edwin Vazquez Aunt but they were all so beautiful, I thought you would like them all. So, here's to you Mikey
Angels..../ Diane Angel Mom- Katie Cassidy
Your 9 mo. Angel Anniversary / Moma Bear Oh Mikey Bear, I just cannot believe the days, agonizing days keep going on without you here. I thought I was doing good till your picture came up and of course I'm crying. Since I'm in the library, I'll make this visit shorter. It's still so unreal to me honey! I want to hear your voice and see your smile. Someday I know I will understand why I have had to suffer so much. I know your happy and that's the only peace I have as it doesn't stop me from missing you and my heart aching to see you again. You are always on my mind and forever in my heart my dear son. You have fun and do your job well there. I'm trying to discover what mine is to complete here and while I've prayed for God to open my heart and disclose what it is I need to do, I seem to be unable to obtain the answer. So if you could, help out a bit with that and visit me please. I love you so much!!! Lots of hugs and kisses being sent to Heaven for you honey!!! XXXXXXOOOOOOXXXXXXOOOOOOOOXXXXXXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOOO
Missing you and feeling lost! / Moma Bear Hi Mikey Bear! I see Melisa has been visiting you and I know that makes you happy. Things have been such a struggle and I am trying to hang in there. I don't understand why life is so hard but know there is a reason for everything even if I don't know it now. I miss you so much and sometimes its so unreal that I will not see you on this earth again and the reality hits me like a knife driving through my heart. I can't wait till we are together again my son. I love you and miss you so much!!!
Hey Turtle / Syndi Just thinking of you today. Hugs special angel.
Hello Again / Syndi (Dillonedwin.memory--------of-.co~ (Angel Friend's Aunt )
We wish we could say hello again Hold you in our arms and then Tell you that we love you so Loud and clear for you to know
Heaven is so far away A beautiful place for you to stay Clouds for pillows soft and white Where angels tuck you in at night Your hearing must be better there We trust you know how much we care Your vision certainly at its best Seeing everything where you rest Family and friends surround you now We will survive but don’t know how Depending on you to give us strength Helping us to go the length You have connections in the sky Are they able to see us cry Do they know what has been taken from us You are gone because they were jealous They knew what an asset you would be In the heavens above flying around all free We only wish we could understand Why we had to let go of your hand We wish we could say hello again Hold you in our arms and then Tell you that we love you so Loud and clear for you to know
My friend / Carol Carico
Judy, My love and prayers are with you as i feel the pain you are going thur. As i also lost my son Michael. I can only ofer you a hand to help you walk this road we now have to walk. It is rough and doesnt seem like it is getting better. Please know my heart breaks for the loss of your Michael. But i know my Michael was there to welcome Mikey home. I am here if you need anything. Love Carol Mom To Angel Michael www.myangelsonmichael.com
Hi Honey!! / Moma Bear Hi Mikey Bear!! How's it going up there? Miss you!! It's Miss Lynnie's birthday today, hope you gave her a big angel hug!! The picture is a gift from Virginia at Ladies of the Heart, www.freespaces.com/vwinsect She put the Cherokee Rose in the middle for me. I want to thank honey for helping through my pain. I know you worked hard to help me and I'm doing really good. I still get scared that the big monster of grief is hiding around the corner and going to get me again. So I try to take it one day at a time and each day I wake up happy, it's a miracle and I smile thinking of you and how you love me so much you were able to lift me up. Your spirit will always surround me, therefore your never truly be too far away from me. It's just having to adjust to our relationship on a very different level now. It's learning that while the phyical aspects of your life will not be, your spirit that counts the most will never leave me. I love you honey!!!! Bunches of Moma Bear hugs and kisses coming your way, catch 'em!!!XXXXOOOXXXXOOOOOOXXXx well that one missed, let me try again, X, there we go!
Butterflies in the wind ! / Mylene Roberge (mommy to angel Sean ) These 2 butterflies are on Sean's site and I thought I'd add them to yours, Mickey. Both blue, one being you and the other Sean. They represent rebirth in your lives.
Look forward to meeting you someday young man, until then sending you hugs, please give Sean a hug and kiss for me.
Happy Anniversary Mom!!! / Moma Bear Michael and Mom I'll bet you two are celebrating and Grandma Turner loved parties, get your dancing shoes on!! I believe you's celebrate your angel anniversaries rather than earthly birthdays now. I have a peace today in my heart and lightness in my step. Through my grief there is vibrance in everything, the color of the earth, the sound of nature is so intensified now. Knowing I am of you's and you'll always be in my heart, I am who I am because of all you, mom, dad, Grandma, Uncle Danny and my Mikey and this fills me with joy until we meet again. Losing you Mikey has been the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. I use to pray as a teenager that God not take my parents. Then my children always got me up and going thru hard times, now this. Then I realized I will be with you again someday, we all will be together again. God did not take you from us, that's one of the hardships of the circle of life here we have to endure because we don't understand everything. However, He was there to take you home when the time came. Last night was the first time I did not visit your site, my thoughts were on Lynnie. What a special lady she has turned out to be and endured so much suffering. She rised above this as you always did to stand in strength and pride. I don't know how Matty is doing and pray he will find or has found this strength within him. You and Grandma wrap Lynnie in your warm wings today and bring her comfort. We miss you's so much and while your celebrating up there, we celebrate that you's were and are so much a part of us. The memories of you's will sustain us as they keep our love alive. Have fun today mom, its your day and know I love and miss you and am so glad I picked you and dad to be my parents!!! And Mikey I'm so happy you picked me to be your mom, you were and are a wonderful son whom has brought bountiful gifts to my life. On the "bad" days when I hurt so much, I get upset because I know you are putting so much work into helping me and I feel I'm holding you back. I'm trying harder to console myself and hear you that your happy and its o.k. We will be together again someday. I love you all very much and thank you God that these beautiful souls were and are a part of my life!
Thank goodness the holidays are over and the dark cloud lifted! / Moma Bear Mikey Bear these holidays kicked me in the butt. It was my darkest moment yet in this journey/road of grief! I would read other grieiving moms email posts but I couldn't reach out the pain had me paralyzed! One mom said it was harder after two years, yuks!! that was not hopeful for me as this season nearly killed me! I made some resolutions when I came through that dark tunnel. Not the norm of exercise, quit smoking but to take a stand and speak out in all I believe in, no matter how big or small the issue. And to not fear anything. Another was to agree with myself to BE STILL as far as Lynnie and Matty are concerned. This journay of life with all its struggles has new meaning to me having to deal with the grief of losing you. You children, my children have always been my mainstay, reason for living. I made and will make many mistakes as I am not just a mother, but a mere human being who has to struggle, stumble and learn the lessons of life like everyone else. You let me know you were proud of me and I hope you know how proud I always was and am of you and Lynnie and Matty. You be happy and enjoy Heaven. Please visit now and then, I'll pick up and get moving, but like I use to always tell you its o.k. to have a pity party when life kicks as long as you get back up and get moving. So honey I'm going to fall many times, however I will get up so you can be proud of your moma bear. Tell Joshua to wrap an angel hug around his mom. You two must be Heavenly Buddies as the music from his site is now playing on here and he's done this before. Love you so much my Mikey Bear I visit your site upon awakening and before I go to bed and I leave it on. I believe you bring me peaceful sleep and it feels like a part of you is here. And tonight I got you and Joshua here to watch over me!! Love yas!!!!
Happy New Years Eve! / Moma Bear Mikey Bear!! Your aggrevating me from Heaven. I didn't know you were allowed to do that!! But I guess if you get to visit us in other ways you earned the privledge to aggrevate us too!! You and Grandpa are probably laughing at me trying to fix this site of yours!!! Quit being a pain, you've aggrevated me for hours now, enough. At least fix your site for New Year's Day, so I don't have to be aggrevated all day!! I love you even if you are aggrevating me!!!
Thank you! You quit aggrevating. The New Year is almost here and you let me know your with us, by teasing me of course! I love you!
I lit the Christmas village up and it looks so nice. On your six month anniversary I know you sent the neighbor lady to befriend me as I busted into tears and she had a big hug to give and told me you'd be so proud of the Christmas village (which goes to Lynnie for her and your nephews and neice). I'm waiting till midnight to put the tea candle in the snowman house and hope Lynnie follows the tradition every New Year's for you and the orange Christmas tree house for me. When the neighbor lady was here, you let your presence be known by rocking the empty soda box back and forth till it fell over. Then when she was here Christmas Eve, your picture jumped off the frig, never broke though. I guess you were excited and I'm so glad you let me know you were here. I noticed I had the village church turned backwards later (sounds sadistic) but not. I believe your trying to tell me to get back to church. As Catholics our Mass is centered around Communion, the body and blood of Christ. You can't receive that if your not in church. I heard ya honey!!
I had a special memory I know you remember. You and Matty had been out, went to the Y in Springfield, late movie...and I told you's that we were going to church. So I woke you's up that morning, you's were moving slow! After church we went to breakfast at Perkin's where I read my quotes from the newspaper where I had been interviewed about diversity/Native American. Then we went to Lebanon to the outlet mall and Matty got a couple pairs of jeans. But trying to find the mall we stopped and asked some young girl where it was. She had herself all turned around and couldn't quit talking. You and Matty were making laughing noises while I was trying to keep a straight face!! We all busted roaring before we got out of the parking lot! Poor girl, you young studs had her all tongue tied and never had to say a word, ha, ha!! Man, I miss you so!!!
Merry Christmas Mikey Bear / Moma Bear My Mikey Bear, I just cannot seem to find the words to describe how I miss you so. Although I know your happy it doesn't stop my heartache of missing you and wanting you here with me. Tell Grandma and Grandpa I miss them too. I'm sure Grandma Turner has you dancing up a storm! I can't wait to be there celebrating with you's. I love you so much and when I think of never seeing you here again is unbearable. So I remind myself that someday I will be with you again in Heaven and time is really just space between us right now that will close soon. (((((((((((I love you!)))))))))) OOOXXXOOOXXXOOOXXXOOOXXXOOOXXXOOOXXXOOOXXXOOOXXXOOO
Your 6 month Anniversary in Heaven! / Moma Bear Dear Mikey I know your so happy back in God's care. I am so blessed to have had you for the time He lent you to me. My life was and is so much more since you've been in it. I'm doing alright, I know your helping God watch over us all. However my son I miss you so, your voice, laugh, expressions, etc. I'll never forget any of it!!! Love you so much honey!!! I'll be able to visit you here everyday soon again. Take care and have a blast! I know your getting ready for the big celebration up there and the tree is 100x bigger than the one we seen at Silver Dollar City. I enjoyed that day with you. I remembered we argued the night before and then went about having fun the next day there seeing the sites. We could do that you and I, argue and always know that never changed our love for one another. You were so much more than a son to me, you were a great friend. Not many mothers can say that of a son of your age. Visit us this holiday we need you so. Love Moma Bear
Merry Christmas / Jamie-Lynn Nault (no relation ) Merry Christmas sweetie, hope you have a wonderful Christmas and know there are so many that miss you and love you. From Angel Mom Jamie and Angel Mikko.
To 1 grieving mom from another / Judy Ireland (anothergrievingmom) I'm terribly sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I, too am a grieving Mother. My oldest daughter passed away two years ago, September 7,2003. I am a single mother of 4, her included. Things sure are hard sometimes. Keep doing whatever it is that u are doing to keep his memories alive. U and your family are in my prayers.
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Hi Mikey Bear!! How's it going up there? Miss you!! It's Miss Lynnie's birthday today, hope you gave her a big angel hug!! The picture is a gift from Virginia at Ladies of the Heart, 
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